This is a challenging verse. Knowing who we should and shouldn’t talk to, and when, calls for real discernment. The older I’ve become, the more I’ve realized just how few people truly have discernment. It is interesting how many people with great business insight and wisdom are not very discerning when it comes to people. I used to believe the two went hand in hand. I have come to learn they don’t. Some have a gift of discernment; others truly need to rely entirely on developing the ability to hear the voice of the Holy Spirit to discern about the individuals in their lives. I have also spent time around foolish people where counsel and wisdom are wasted. They neither desire nor feel any particular need for that wisdom at that moment in their lives. However, maintaining a kind relationship has shown that later in life—often much later—they find themselves in a situation where the very wisdom or spiritual insight they once scorned is now what they crave. It may be during a moment of crisis or loss. At one point in my role leading a national ministry, I was given research that indicated 90% of decisions for Christ were made during a crisis or traumatic event. It makes sense that when the earth shakes, everyone looks up. I don’t believe Solomon’s verse encourages us to completely write off scornful or lost people. He certainly encourages us to fill our lives with godly men and women. Today, listen, be kind, and let the Spirit lead your conversations. #BeTheEdge #LoveJesusBeKind
“But to you who are listening I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you,” Jesus
